happily single

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Happily single

Happily single, unattached without staples, we act like relationships are everything, well I am turning the tables. Fixated on long held beliefs, of people living in the past who couldn't conceive, of the 21st century and what living in this time really means. Who said life is a checklist? Ticking items down like a wishlist. Marriage, kids before 30 is that on your list? Useless if you don't meet the list? Working hard to sustain a myth that won't give you peace. What happens when your imagined life won't give you peace? Divorce, custody, yea it's hard to keep the peace. Happily single, it needs to be about me. Single-minded and selfish but I am trying to get the cream. Providing for Africa is my dream. It's a waste of time starring in somebody else's dream. They be trying to change me to their specifications like my reality ain't what it seems. Happily single, we act like children can't be the spoke on the wheel, sure you can love the kid but is there denying that it's slowing you down? Life is a steep hill battle and you can't make it out of town. Formula milk exorbitant, that will drop your crown. Sure you love your kid but he can be a mistake, one to make you drown. Happily single, wasting my time chasing expectations, trying to fill a role, being someone society expects just to get a vote. Validation can't come from the outside, it needs to be about me, that's my quote. Redefining what my life should be and it's strictly my vote. Can't be chasing illusions and ghosts, visiting life when I am the host. Happily single, look at me, I am vibrant, I am free, doing things that come naturally to me, splurging on materials and not having to worry about the fees. Doing what I want not having to say please. Happily single, my ambition is me, working on all the things that interest me, putting myself first because it's all about me. Happily single, self-love, in my prime, nobody can make me happy but me, willing to branch out but it starts with me. Happily single, the world doesn't care about you as you get older, it's liberation, so I mingle. 

Happily single, unattached without staples, we act like relationships are everything, well I am turning the tables.


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